Society tells heavy women they need to lose weight and cover up- but even if you are in the process of losing weight, there is no reason you can’t enjoy every stage of your body. Here are tips to embrace a full figure and make the best of it.
Before I begin, I’ll say this–looking good fat has everything to do with how you feel about your weight. Most of the time, it isn’t healthy to be fat, but that doesn’t mean that you should be ashamed of your body, only that you should take measures to be healthier. You can’t become average-weight overnight, so while you’re on your way there, you should find ways to show off your body–because not all guys like women to be toothpick skinny. And more important than guys is your own confidence–you’ll feel better and happier if you’re dressing and looking great.
Find your best feature – For many large women, breasts are the main feature, but not all heavy girls have large breasts. For some, it’s the butt, and for others, they have a large midsection and a fairly un-curvy butt, but great legs. Everyone has a good feature. Once find that feature, it will be easier to play it up.
If you have great boobs, get a good bra and show cleavage - Get a good full-coverage bra to support large breasts, but make sure it’s one that doesn’t look matronly. There are specialty stores for larger bras…Victoria’s Secret doesn’t carry a lot of sizes that larger women need. Get a bra that really supports you, and then, show cleavage! Nothing is worse than saggy cleavage, so the bra is important. A V-neck shirt will help you to look thinner if boobs are your main accessory. Whatever you do, stay away from loose,billowy shirts. Empire waists are fine if you’re trying to hide a big tummy, but any high-cut, loose top will only make you look fatter and hide your boobs–which are the best part!